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rlgirl83
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Country: United States
State: California
Birthday: 1/18/1983
Gender: Female
Interests: chemistry sucks
Expertise: being a nerd
Occupation: Student
Industry: Other
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Member Since:
10/16/2002
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| gaddamn its been a long ass time! i went to Bowling Green, Ohio for a week for an orientation for my internship. it was a really good experience and a lot better than i had expected. that was the farthest east i've ever been and making stop overs in St. Louis and into Detroit. and then on the way back to Chicago. so my internship has officially started, about 4 weeks ago. i get my reading assignments at the beginning of the week and have assignments or quizzes due at the end of the week. its pretty tough because theres so much reading and i have no interaction (face to face) with the professor or classmates (just through email and some facebooking with other interns haha) im still working full time hours so i feel like every free moment i have, im either reading or working on homework. theres so much to read, i just have to skim everything and i feel like im not retaining anything. so if i was given a pop quiz, closed notes, i think i would fail. =P hopefully in the next few weeks when the new schedule comes out, my hours will be cut down. for once i WANT my hours to get cut. =P its september already! 3 more months until january and then...
2008 will be over!
i start my rotations!
shannon and wilsons wedding!
ill be 26! hahahah
ill just about half way done with my internship!
that much close to being able to become an RD! anywho, just wanted to write a quick update, even though no one reads this thing. hah. | | |
| OBON IS HERE!!!! WOO HOO!!! | | |
| read this on a bulletin on myspace.
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If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If
a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you cant "be friends".A friend wouldnt mistreat a friend.
Dont settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better.
"
You will be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
the only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later
You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.
Dont EVER make him feel he is more important than you are.......
even if he has more education or in a better job
do not make him into a quasi-god
he is a man, nothing more nothing less
never borrow someone else's man
if he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending..... compromise is two
way street.
You
need time to deal between relationships.... there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You
should never look for someone to complete you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesnt turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make
him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and
you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
Dont fully commit to a man who doesnt give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share
this with other women and men (just so they know)...You will make
someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
They
say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
Advice from Angel,
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr.
Phil
You
should know that you're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone
and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was
attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the one.
They are all watching you, so you have a lot of choices.
make the right one
Ladies take care of your own hearts.............. | | |
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mmm it looks the same hahaha
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